Our experience here was truly horrific. The director is, at best, socially awkward and, at worst, plain rude. Our daughter's teacher wasn't warm or loving as you'd expect for 3-year-olds, but instead was callous, snarky, unapproachable, unknowledgeable, and very unprofessional (rolling her eyes and snickering...
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Our experience here was truly horrific. The director is, at best, socially awkward and, at worst, plain rude. Our daughter's teacher wasn't warm or loving as you'd expect for 3-year-olds, but instead was callous, snarky, unapproachable, unknowledgeable, and very unprofessional (rolling her eyes and snickering at me in meetings, etc.) We learned that the teacher's background was in corporate banking, which explained a lot. When we asked if the aides were certified, the director said, "They don't legally have to be!" None of this was disclosed before enrollment.
I had the chance to spend some time in the classroom, as our daughter, who was used to being home with us for 3 yrs, struggled to adjust without us at first. We were told to get her evaluated because she was "throwing too many tantrums." (As a 13-year, dually-certified kindergarten teacher myself, I knew this was ludicrous. However, in trying to keep an open mind, I mentioned this to her pediatrician's office. Knowing our child well, they laughed and told us to "get her out of there and into a school not run by idiots.") When we asked my child why she was so upset at school, she said because the teachers were "not so kind" and they wouldn't listen to her until she cried. We were obviously very upset by this and arranged to "observe" the play sessions.
The things I saw during my time there were unacceptable. From a teacher's POV, there were many issues (failure to follow proper teaching models, content not appropriate for developmental age, lack of preparedness for lessons, unsafe play conditions at times, etc) but what upset me the most was the behavior I observed. If parents really knew how their babies were being treated (many of whom were too young to retain it or tell them), I doubt they'd be so quick to praise the school.
My first day, the class mom's son was hysterically crying alone, missing his mom, and the director told me not to comfort him because he needed to stop on his own. They told his mom at pickup that he had a great day.
Multiple times, I heard the staff talk meanly about one of the board member's son and insult her parenting. They'd nastily yell at him for acting out but were SO SWEET to both mom and him whenever the mom showed up.
Eventually, I was going in with my child every day, as I no longer trusted her in their care without my supervision (but she, being an innocent 3-year-old, wanted to stay with her friends, which was the only reason I didn't pull her out right away).
One aide once grabbed a boy very hard by his arms and screamed at him to stand up straight when he was playfully slumping his body to the floor, and other times yanked kids by their arms to put them back in their circle time spots if they (unintentionally from singing or dancing) moved off their mats. She would speak harshly to the kids who were "not following rules," though not once did the teacher ever go over expectations, class rules, or even classroom routines with the kids at any point. (Of course, the aide was very sweet to all the parents, though.)
I could probably fill 20 pages with all the rude and inappropriate interactions that took place with us and around us if Google didn't have a word limit, but instead, I'll just say this place was nothing like what it promised at first glance. At parent orientation, they said the school was in jeopardy of closing in 5 years if enrollment kept dropping. As a newcomer at the time, I couldn't understand why, but after seeing the school from the inside out, I absolutely understand now.
Our daughter is now enrolled in our district school for Pre-K, and we couldn't be happier. Her teacher is warm, loving, supportive, kind, educated...everything a preschool teacher should be. Our daughter is well-adjusted and happy, and she wakes up excited to go to school every day. The principal and administration are absolutely wonderful. We feel happy and safe sending our daughter to school each day knowing that she is in great hands. THAT is what a parent's (and child's) preschool experience should be...NOT the horror that is GCNS.