This is a great place for a party of 2, I'm sure. We reserve a room each year for a group, and the amount of people will vary by year. Sometimes we only have 10, sometimes, like this year, there's 25.We make accurate reservations well...
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This is a great place for a party of 2, I'm sure. We reserve a room each year for a group, and the amount of people will vary by year. Sometimes we only have 10, sometimes, like this year, there's 25.We make accurate reservations well in advance.A few years ago, we began being offered a limited menu, which is fine, but each year the menu gets more limited and much more plain.This years choices: a plain ribeye, filet medallions, chicken or salmon.I ordered filets and of the 3 sides offered, I chose the truffle Mac and cheese. I didn't realize that the side options were being served "family style", and the server didn't tell me when I ordered it.I was at a table with 6 men and 3 women. The server brought a little plate of Mac and cheese, asparagus, and potatoes and set it at the far end of the table. Everyone assumed there would be another plate of sides for my end so they took what they wanted. It was an appropriate amount for 4 people after all.But there was not another side dish coming.For my side, I had one piece of asparagus and I scraped the bowl of the Mac and cheese to get one teaspoon full of the sauce, that's it.The medallion that I started with was so tough and full of connective tissue that I was unable to chew it so I chose to have the rest boxed because I was embarrassed.To be fair, what I brought home WAS very tender besides the one, but I didn't know that at the time.Everything smelled good and the little bites I had tasted good. The salad would have been very good if it had had enough dressing and it wasn't just plain lettuce, the rolls were delicious and I would have been happy just to eat those but I got half of one that i split with someone. We were never offered more.I don't know what our total was this year, but in past years, with fewer people, it ran about 3 to 5 grand for 10 or so people. I'm assuming last night was more like 10 to 12 grand for 26 people.It seems like, for that amount of money, everyone in the group should at least get a side dish, maybe even two sides like in past years, and that maybe a second basket of rolls wouldn't be asking too much.Or, if that's no longer an option, maybe the server could be present and observe the fact that some people have nothing on their plates and be available if they'd like to order something.It's much much different than it used to be. I, personally, don't feel it's worth it anymore. Who would? I didn't mind spending the money when the food was amazing and you actually got to enjoy it instead of watching the people on the other end of the table enjoying what you ordered and you barely get to taste it.I would have gladly paid whatever they charged to have a side of Mac and cheese, especially since I was unable to eat the steak. But the server was absent.I'm going to suggest we continue this tradition someplace new next year.I got the feeling, this year, that we were too expected and dependable. Like, we go there every year, we never complain, and we'll be back again next year, no matter what, so it doesn't really matter if we're satisfied, there's no need to try and impress us.I waited tables for 10 years at an upscale restaurant. I understand the entire process. There's no way I would have expected a table of 9 to split that little plate of sides. But if I had, I'd have set it in the middle so it would be obvious that that's all they were getting and I would have remained present, assuming that people would be wanting to order sides because it clearly wasn't enough.Our server came back around with boxes eventually.Their goal was to figure out who's paying, schmooze him, and get us gone, and we can get that kind of treatment anywhere. The food being superior makes no difference when you don't get any. The service makes no difference when you're ignored. In past years, the servers have schmoozed all over the wrong person and when the bill was brought and handed off to my husband, the absolute jaw dropping horror, shock, and disbelief was so hilarious that it made it worth being ignored. At least we got fed.