I’m really sad I didn’t trust my gut. I know Lindsay’s family personally and knew she went to my hs so I wanted to support her. Our first $250-350 (I dont remember) consult she talked the entire time about her cousins and where they’re living...
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I’m really sad I didn’t trust my gut. I know Lindsay’s family personally and knew she went to my hs so I wanted to support her. Our first $250-350 (I dont remember) consult she talked the entire time about her cousins and where they’re living now and some of her very private info from other cases. I felt a little rude having to interrupt as I nervously watched my one hour timer tick down. I kept saying, “I’m so sorry but I have so many questions I need to ask on this call, can I get to these?” Then she’d go down another rabbit hole of personal stories. We didn’t even make it to discussing my kids, and that was the highest priority and with five minutes left she said, “I’m So sorry we didn’t even get to talk about your kids. We’ll have to do this again on another meeting.” (In my head, I’m thinking, do I have to pay for that meeting because I sent a list of questions prior to this first one and we didn’t even discuss my situation).
We never had that meeting. I trusted her just because I knew her family. Lots of my friends said not to hire her for those reasons and they didn’t have a good feeling.
When you are not only cheated on, and had money taken by your partner, who is experiencing the lowest of his life, on top of multiple deaths in the family, new foster children involved, and so many hard things to navigate, I would think they (Lindsay and her staff) would be so much more empathetic and kind working with clients.
Her paralegal Kathy treated me like I was stupid every time she talk to me. I don’t live in the legal world so I don’t even know what a lot of things mean. Anytime I asked a Q she talked down to me. I have so much email proof of me getting back to them just a day later and then they would hound me a week later saying they didn’t receive anything from me. I literally have proof every single time and would forward that to her but Lyndsey would respond with, “ Quit trying to prove things and move on.” Divorcing is like taking on a full to a part-time job in paperwork. Not only was I emotionally stressed, I was trying to wrap my head around all the 1000 of things I had to take off work for to handle this divorce.
I asked her if she could just take the #s I had given her for assets and debts and tell me even what was an inappropriate number to try and negotiate with my ex and they continue to say I’m trying to get to step 9 when we are on step 1. Her paralegal wouldn’t help at all. When she would ask me questions about every penny, even down to how much my cleats cost for my kids baseball season, she talked to me in such a rude way as if I was lying.
I called their secretary & asked her if there was another paralegal in the office I could work with bc I felt like I was being a little interrogated as if I was talking to my exes lawyer, and she said, “hang on.”
Lindsay then picked up the phone and proceeded to cuss me out and tell me how dare I say anyone in her office is unkind or talking down to me. She literally said she was “a pitbull, and could turn on me in a heartbeat, and I should highly consider withdrawing her as her attorney” and hung up.
I had her on speaker phone with a friend nearby and our jaws hit the floor.
I paid her $3500 to send in paperwork that’s nice. But they were never kind, and not helpful.
I got a mediator friend to help with the assets and debts numbers bc really it should be that simple, and he calculated the numbers on who should owe who in about 10 minutes. Which led us to resolving the issue without an attorney.
After hiring multiple attorneys between foster care/adoption and now divorce, I’ve realized that lawyers are only there to file paperwork (all of which you can do on your own and save your money).
They aren’t there to give advice or guidance. The absolute most informative person who was so super sweet during this process was her secretary who gave me more emotional and legal insight than I received the entire year and after two terrible lawyers.
Beware of Kathy & Lindsay.. are very mean. Every lawyer I spoke to after said Lindsay is very mean in court also.