ALOT of strange things in this church. I always thought I enjoyed the pastors sermons until one day when my sister, whom was my best friend my whole life, passed away unexpectedly, I was beside myself! Not knowing which way to turn as...
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ALOT of strange things in this church. I always thought I enjoyed the pastors sermons until one day when my sister, whom was my best friend my whole life, passed away unexpectedly, I was beside myself! Not knowing which way to turn as I was hurting so bad. I came to the pastor for prayer and his response was " Kathy, people die all of the time, i could die today or tomorrow", He said it so rude and had not one bit of remorse. He could have cared less. It made matters worse for me, so I came back to him and asked him why he said that as I felt it was degrading my sister. And his response was, " What'd you want me to say?".( Again, very rudely) I said, pray" and his response was," ok, ok I'm sorry, are you going to be quiet about it now.?". He, again was so rude while saying this. He could have cared less. So I asked for the counselor from the church, number and he refused to give it to me. So I contacted the elders, and one of the elders first words were " We are friends with pastor, so we can't help you". He could have cared less as well. When I said "I stand no chance do I, since your friends? He then listened and let me pore out my grief and pain of things that has happened to me, in which HE PROMISED THAT IT WOULD STAY ONLY WITHIN THE ELDERS AND THAT IT WAS CONFIDENTIAL, Yet it didn't, he went to his wife to get advice and then at church on Sunday, I get looks like I was a monkey in a zoo, from his wife's friend. And a few others. Amazing, how you can't even trust some of the Elders!! I then asked why my private information was told to others when they told me it stayed within the elders and myself. The one elder, whom I have never had a conversation in my life with, emails me and says "Us Elders and the pastor have decided that we will not answer your emails,because they said they may not say the right thing. Instead of answering my questions as to why they talked to others about things that were to be confidential, they blew it off into saying "we will not answer any messages from you but I should come to church, that they all loved me. Not sure what kind of love he is talking about, because this isn't Love.! They have NEVER TAKEN THE TIME TO EVER LISTEN TO THE REST OF WHAT WENT ON IN THIS CHURCH, NOR DID THEY CARE!!!!!! They wouldn't let me talk. Why is that? Because their is some sick things going on other than what I have mentioned. Some things that is to embarrassing to say on here. But the fact that it's all brushed off and they refuse to talk about it, is even scarier yet on what kind of a place this is. Never in my life have I seen something like this happen in any church I've been to. Not only has this damaged me but my daughter as well. And these few people that had done what they've done should feel ashamed of their selves and WILL BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE SOME DAY WITH THE LORD. AND YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE!!!!